Ben Franklin Asks a Favor

Sometimes, no matter what we try, we can't get other people to see things our way. So why not try seeing things their way? In his life and ministry, Jesus consistently encouraged his disciples to see things—and people—differently than the world does. Should we do any different?

Being vulnerable, asking for help or advice, can seem like a sign of weakness; especially when the person you are asking isn't your biggest fan. But sometimes that vulnerability opens the door to new possibilities of friendship.

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Transcript

Benjamin Franklin, it is said, once had a powerful enemy in Philadelphia. He asked himself how he might lose this enemy, and he hit on an idea: Franklin asked the man who hated him to lend him a particular book. The man was flattered. And on the common ground between the book owner and the borrower, a friendship formed.

It's ironic that asking someone to help can lower walls. But it's true. People are endeared to us when they can do something for us.

This is Howard Butt, Jr., of Laity Lodge. I'm not suggesting you presume on others, let them do your work, or habitually ask for favors. I do suggest that friendships deepen when we accept the graciousness of another . . . in the high calling of our daily work.

He who loves a pure heart and whose speech is gracious
will have the king for his friend.

(Prov. 22:11)